Evolution of one's soul journey is not about the destination, but in fact, about every given moment where one can either choose love or fear. Neither is wrong. The judgment that arises serves to teach where your heart currently resides. Love always begets love. Fear allows for the growth of love to expand even if it is not felt or yet to be made evident. Choice is the freedom gifted to experience what you believe. Lessons enable refinement to ensue. The human spirit is refined through the pressure, discomfort, and pain in order to bring forth the same brilliance of the purest of diamonds. Diamonds in its roughest state will always be a diamond. And you are, and forever will be, infinitely more precious and valuable than all of the diamonds ever created, in GOD's eternal love.